There Can Be No Unity Without Truth

Scott Gilman
6 min readJan 20, 2021

It’s tempting, because it’s easier, to resolve a fight with calls for coming together. But a desire for healing is not enough.

To stay together over the long haul, couples must learn how to fight. How to argue, how to air grievances, how to repair and come back together.

The first step is to stop and listen to the other person — and have them explain their perspective. What…

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Scott Gilman

Thinking and writing about my place in the world, and making myself (and the world) a little bit better. I can be reached at scottmgilman@gmail.com.