There Can Be No Unity Without Truth
6 min readJan 20, 2021
It’s tempting, because it’s easier, to resolve a fight with calls for coming together. But a desire for healing is not enough.
To stay together over the long haul, couples must learn how to fight. How to argue, how to air grievances, how to repair and come back together.
The first step is to stop and listen to the other person — and have them explain their perspective. What…